God, im gettin so bored here, its the same dull routine everyday that generally consists of eating and sleeping. When did my family holidays get so damn dull. To add to that my parents are leaving for a few days for business and leaving me and my brother all alone with nothing but some money and our small vocabulary of chinese. Not that a couple of days at home wouldnt be nice compared to the daily 8am wakeup call from my parents. For one im actually hoping to go on a sightseeing tour somewhere to keep me from going insane. Somewhere like singapore or japan? But knowing how busy my parents are i doubt we will reach any furthur then Hong Kong. Sad but true.
Everything is just getting on my nerves here. Even the massage last night was a pain. The girl giving me the massage was so pretty but i had a little more then a hunch she didnt like me. Ok, so maybe im a little paranoid but hey, paranoid is better then bored. First she was pushing on my forehead so hard i have a bruise on my head, then she started literally pulling my hair, then pinching my back so hard i felt like she was trying to rip something off then punching my repeatedly on my back so hard i felt like my dinner was comming up again. Needless to say i was feeling as firm as tofu by the time she was done.
Please someone get me out of here! Three more weeks of this and im going to go a crazy [more then i already am]
-- kitty
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Sunday, November 30, 2008
R.I.P mousie
The last couple of days have been so exhausting im sick again! Almost as sick as last year when i spent time in the hospital here having a salient drip placed in me for hourrssss. This time it came so suddenly i dont know what triggered it. One minute im watching friends on my laptop and the next moment i feel the sudden urge to spew, which was reddish and i could see bits of the peanut m&m's i had jus eaten, kinda look like a Strawberry Daqirie [very graphic i know lol] So then i KO'ed for the rest of the day, hopefully ill feel better tomorrow.
Which is more then i can say for my new pet mouse. I only bought him yesterday arvo and it was sooo hungry and was literally chewing on his own cage. So i felt so bad i fed it rice and banana's and it just kept eating and eating! It was 1.5 times it size by the next morning. Anyhows it seemed fine so i left it when i went to have dinner and by the time i got back it was lying flat on his front, his little arms and legs stretched out infront of him but still alive.. So i thought it must be resting but after about5 30minutes my poor little mousie was POOK GAI ! I told my mum when i bought him that if i couldnt look after him then id never have kids and OMGGG it died in less then 24hrs! Im going to make SUCH a bad mother *tear tear*
God i hope i get better, im going stirr crazy at home ! arrhhhhh !
-- Kitty xx
Which is more then i can say for my new pet mouse. I only bought him yesterday arvo and it was sooo hungry and was literally chewing on his own cage. So i felt so bad i fed it rice and banana's and it just kept eating and eating! It was 1.5 times it size by the next morning. Anyhows it seemed fine so i left it when i went to have dinner and by the time i got back it was lying flat on his front, his little arms and legs stretched out infront of him but still alive.. So i thought it must be resting but after about5 30minutes my poor little mousie was POOK GAI ! I told my mum when i bought him that if i couldnt look after him then id never have kids and OMGGG it died in less then 24hrs! Im going to make SUCH a bad mother *tear tear*
God i hope i get better, im going stirr crazy at home ! arrhhhhh !
-- Kitty xx
Friday, November 28, 2008
Happy Biirthday mum！
So it was my mums birthday two days ago and i totally forgot, i feel so guilty about it as well. My dad remembered.. today.. and got her a big bunch of flowers which made me feel even worst. But how am i suppose to remember her if she doesn't even remember her own?!
It takes her about another 45seconds to figure out the reason why she got flowers, but was pretty happy when she got them even though they were slightly late.
Anyhow yesterday i got to spend the day at my beach house because my dad was on Business somewhere. This is the first time i actually got to use the pool, its usually emptied for the winter so i took the first chance i had to take a dip. So me and my brother got downstairs and we realised we[i] forgot our[my] floatie [ok, so i cant swim] So i screamed out to my mum 9 floors up and miraciously she heard us, yes, my voice is THAT loud. So i told her to throw it down to us [which was an obviously stupid idea with the gale force winds that day] But she did anyways and it dropped and bounced of the railing of an apartment on about the fifth floor, which was a close call. I ran through the garden to fetch it and to my disappointment couldnt find it =/ It was another 5minutes of searching till we realised that it had flown into an apartment on the first floor. So what do we do ? After deciding it was not physically possible for me to climb onto the first floor balcony i manage to persuade my little brother to let me boost him over the railing and into the apartment, which was luckily unoccupied. It was going well until cleaners came to see what was going on and i had to explain quickly in poor Chinese we can innocently dropped our floatie into someones balcony. I doubt they believed me, but hey, whats the reason i would wanna rob an empty apartment ?
I dont know why but i like it when little things like that go wrong, makes my life a little more interesting.
wonder what im doing tomorrow ?
-- Kitty xx
* Dad walking up with a bunch of roses*
mum "wonder who gave those to him ?
* Dad gives Ｈer the roses*
mum " what are these for"
dad "for YOU!"
It takes her about another 45seconds to figure out the reason why she got flowers, but was pretty happy when she got them even though they were slightly late.
Anyhow yesterday i got to spend the day at my beach house because my dad was on Business somewhere. This is the first time i actually got to use the pool, its usually emptied for the winter so i took the first chance i had to take a dip. So me and my brother got downstairs and we realised we[i] forgot our[my] floatie [ok, so i cant swim] So i screamed out to my mum 9 floors up and miraciously she heard us, yes, my voice is THAT loud. So i told her to throw it down to us [which was an obviously stupid idea with the gale force winds that day] But she did anyways and it dropped and bounced of the railing of an apartment on about the fifth floor, which was a close call. I ran through the garden to fetch it and to my disappointment couldnt find it =/ It was another 5minutes of searching till we realised that it had flown into an apartment on the first floor. So what do we do ? After deciding it was not physically possible for me to climb onto the first floor balcony i manage to persuade my little brother to let me boost him over the railing and into the apartment, which was luckily unoccupied. It was going well until cleaners came to see what was going on and i had to explain quickly in poor Chinese we can innocently dropped our floatie into someones balcony. I doubt they believed me, but hey, whats the reason i would wanna rob an empty apartment ?
I dont know why but i like it when little things like that go wrong, makes my life a little more interesting.
wonder what im doing tomorrow ?
-- Kitty xx
Monday, November 24, 2008
Eye of the storm
I cant believe its been so long since I blogged, after telling myself i'll set aside time to blog each week. I feel so unreliable right now. So much has happened in the last few months i have barely had time to stop and gather myself. With exams, studying, parties, work, promoting, a trip to queensland, another trip to queensland, birthdays, dinners and finally ending up in china i have had next to no sleep in the last month and a half.
So far I spent two night at the white swan in GuanZhou while my parents did business, two nights in my City apartment in Longgang settling in and The last two night in the beach house resting. And my god ave i rested ! I had fifteen hours of sleep last night! I woke up forgetting how to walk >I have so much to be thankful for as well, such as my great friends and family who pick me up when i am at my worst.
There is only one thing that i am regretting this year, and that is lossing someome important to me needlessly. There was no cheating or lying as i had them believe, it was all a cheap ploy to distract them from my expressions of discontent. And so they left, at the worst possible time for them. It was for the best i suppose, thinking about their indescretions showed how it was less of a loss then i thought. What hurt the most when i was with them was that i knew i would always be second, thought about second most, cared about second best and loved second to someone else. Its not something i could have lived with. why is it that the substitues never seem as good no matter how much better they seem on paper ? Its been less then a month, but somehow it seems like its been forever- though it still hurts. Once again ive been replaced, by a newer model, and people wonder why i have a complex about staying young? They seems happy, and i guess in some way it should make me feel better, but it doesnt. It hurt so much when they were down and i did everything i could to make it better, even though they never knew and hopefully never will. Looking like the bad guy is better then looking like i tried but couldnt make it better in my eyes.
Either way, this year was a chance to learn and grow, Next year is when i make my mark. So many plans in my head just waiting to spring into action. Im going to show those who have no faith in me what i am exactly capable of. My goal this year is to be completely independent.
But before that i am going to enjoy my time away from all the BS that tends to plague my existence. Looking at how the people over here gives me a new profound outlook to life. Life doesnt have to be all social politics and complications. It can just be simple, like the old man sitting on the peir fishing or the old ladies that gather outside my gated community ever night to dance. Life is only as complicated as you make it. Sometimes i think those who have less, can gain so much more in life.
In this sense, i am reluctant to go home this time.
So far I spent two night at the white swan in GuanZhou while my parents did business, two nights in my City apartment in Longgang settling in and The last two night in the beach house resting. And my god ave i rested ! I had fifteen hours of sleep last night! I woke up forgetting how to walk >I have so much to be thankful for as well, such as my great friends and family who pick me up when i am at my worst.
There is only one thing that i am regretting this year, and that is lossing someome important to me needlessly. There was no cheating or lying as i had them believe, it was all a cheap ploy to distract them from my expressions of discontent. And so they left, at the worst possible time for them. It was for the best i suppose, thinking about their indescretions showed how it was less of a loss then i thought. What hurt the most when i was with them was that i knew i would always be second, thought about second most, cared about second best and loved second to someone else. Its not something i could have lived with. why is it that the substitues never seem as good no matter how much better they seem on paper ? Its been less then a month, but somehow it seems like its been forever- though it still hurts. Once again ive been replaced, by a newer model, and people wonder why i have a complex about staying young? They seems happy, and i guess in some way it should make me feel better, but it doesnt. It hurt so much when they were down and i did everything i could to make it better, even though they never knew and hopefully never will. Looking like the bad guy is better then looking like i tried but couldnt make it better in my eyes.
Either way, this year was a chance to learn and grow, Next year is when i make my mark. So many plans in my head just waiting to spring into action. Im going to show those who have no faith in me what i am exactly capable of. My goal this year is to be completely independent.
But before that i am going to enjoy my time away from all the BS that tends to plague my existence. Looking at how the people over here gives me a new profound outlook to life. Life doesnt have to be all social politics and complications. It can just be simple, like the old man sitting on the peir fishing or the old ladies that gather outside my gated community ever night to dance. Life is only as complicated as you make it. Sometimes i think those who have less, can gain so much more in life.
In this sense, i am reluctant to go home this time.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Boys and Barcardi
My mum always told me that when i was in a relationship that the guy should always love me more then i love them.
Which i managed to stick by for most of my dating life (which hasn't been too long, i was a late bloomer lol) but lately i find myself putting my heart on the line more and more often.
It always seems to happen the same way. Girl meets boy, Boy likes Girl, Girl likes boy, Girl opens her heart, boy leaves. Girl napalms boys possessions and youtubes it
I'm starting to believe it is me that's the problem or Perhaps its my choice in boys, which is less then stellar (my friends will vouch for that)
I get the guys who are mentally challenged, deranged, drugged up, alcoholics, compulsive gamblers, compulsive liars, pedophiles, commitment phobics, stalkers, loud chewers, with mother issues, with hygiene issues, illiterates, jerks, jerks with jerky friends or just plain idiots.
You want to see the crap of the crop ! well i got them !
Its my own personal freakshow... and im the ringmaster !
-- kitty xx
Which i managed to stick by for most of my dating life (which hasn't been too long, i was a late bloomer lol) but lately i find myself putting my heart on the line more and more often.
It always seems to happen the same way. Girl meets boy, Boy likes Girl, Girl likes boy, Girl opens her heart, boy leaves. Girl napalms boys possessions and youtubes it
I'm starting to believe it is me that's the problem or Perhaps its my choice in boys, which is less then stellar (my friends will vouch for that)
I get the guys who are mentally challenged, deranged, drugged up, alcoholics, compulsive gamblers, compulsive liars, pedophiles, commitment phobics, stalkers, loud chewers, with mother issues, with hygiene issues, illiterates, jerks, jerks with jerky friends or just plain idiots.
You want to see the crap of the crop ! well i got them !
Its my own personal freakshow... and im the ringmaster !
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On a less depressing note, I got to have a look around Barcardi fest at darling harbor before.
I remember last year when we went it was already closed and we all went home dissapointed =/
But this year is was so madd... the atmosphere was so alive and people were dancing in the streets! just like the world should be all the time ! I wish i knew how to Salsa !
Its a shame i was only there for Half an hour because it had to go Vintage after !
Dancing in the street
Will toe and I
Beautiful city backdrop
I remember last year when we went it was already closed and we all went home dissapointed =/
But this year is was so madd... the atmosphere was so alive and people were dancing in the streets! just like the world should be all the time ! I wish i knew how to Salsa !
Its a shame i was only there for Half an hour because it had to go Vintage after !
I love bright lights
Dancing in the street
Will toe and I
Beautiful city backdrop
-- kitty xx
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Oktoberfest at Löwenbräu Keller
I always relish the opportunity to see my girls, its always so hard to get us in one spot. Whether its work commitments, study commitments, illness, laziness, boyfriend issues or girlfriend issues, there is always something on for at least one of us.
So when most of the group is there i get excited! the only person we were missing was Nancy, but shes properly busy preparing for her birthday bash next week (doubt it, but sounds good).
Either way we managed to finish about 20 litres of beir between the 12 of us! pretty impressive for little Asian chicks right ? haha
Aileen and I also got to go up for the cow bell ringing as well, which was soo unbelievably cool even though I was a little laggy and i forgot to stop a couple of times (only i would do that).
I went up for the second time that night for the drinking competition (typical) which was hilarious. We were already a little tipsy and bloated from the beir we had before but hey what the heck!
We would have won too if it wasnt for our vanity! we are suppose to drink the beir and leave the foam and then put the glass upside down on our heads. But obvously the prospect of ruining our precious hair was something we were not prepared to do, even with our competitive nature.
So we finished the drink, foam and all. We were suprisingly fast as well and would have won if the other girl doing it hadn't decided to pour half the glass onto her head. Some things are just not worth winning ! haha Either way it was hilarious and we got a free shot of snapps !
Pretty good !
Although the food there isnt really my cup of tea, i hve to say i love the entertainment ! oh and the MANGO BEER MMMMM!
My sexy mama susan!
I think Lansi and Shellz look super cute here! (and a litle drunk)
One.. Two.. Three .. GO !
*gulp gulp*
Aileen and I ringing the cow bells !
So when most of the group is there i get excited! the only person we were missing was Nancy, but shes properly busy preparing for her birthday bash next week (doubt it, but sounds good).
Either way we managed to finish about 20 litres of beir between the 12 of us! pretty impressive for little Asian chicks right ? haha
Aileen and I also got to go up for the cow bell ringing as well, which was soo unbelievably cool even though I was a little laggy and i forgot to stop a couple of times (only i would do that).
I went up for the second time that night for the drinking competition (typical) which was hilarious. We were already a little tipsy and bloated from the beir we had before but hey what the heck!
We would have won too if it wasnt for our vanity! we are suppose to drink the beir and leave the foam and then put the glass upside down on our heads. But obvously the prospect of ruining our precious hair was something we were not prepared to do, even with our competitive nature.
So we finished the drink, foam and all. We were suprisingly fast as well and would have won if the other girl doing it hadn't decided to pour half the glass onto her head. Some things are just not worth winning ! haha Either way it was hilarious and we got a free shot of snapps !
Pretty good !
Although the food there isnt really my cup of tea, i hve to say i love the entertainment ! oh and the MANGO BEER MMMMM!
My beautiful Girls
My sexy mama susan!
I think Lansi and Shellz look super cute here! (and a litle drunk)
One.. Two.. Three .. GO !
*gulp gulp*
-- kitty xx
Monday, September 29, 2008
My mini mock experiment.
Our Hypothesis : It is unreasonable to ask for a spouses password.
Participants: Subjects are of various genders, sexual orientations, races and ages
Methodology: Random sample of subjects were asked one of two set questions delivered neutrally with little [as possible] researcher bias. This was done by using two different reseachers to deliver the survey
Q. is it reasonable for a guy to ask his gf for her passwords?
P1 :he is just saying he doesn't trust you
its kind of immature of him
p2: FK NO, lol well if a girl asks me for all, hell no. sum are ok.
p3: no, he may be your partner but u still have your own privacy.he should put it in the past and leave it at that, not try to check up on u as it is now..and he is also checkin up on u cos he cares for u
but yet i wouldn't like the thought of a guy checking up on me...
p4: no, i think that's going to far when it comes to privacy. There has to be some sort of privacy
when a guy asks that hes just being insecure and paranoid...and from my experience..... shit goes downhill from there
p5: no, she is allowed to have her own privacy and life on the side. he is just insecure if he asks that.
p6: not really. he doesn't need to get into them, there yours.
might be different if u both trade passwords or something but it seems like a weird request to me
p7: no, never. unless it is absolutely necessary or something that isnt important. everyone deserves their own personal space. there are things that people are not able to share,emails especially,who u speak to, how you speak to, is of no concern to them. there is absolutely no need for them to know what your emails consist of
Q : is it reasonable for a girl to ask her bf for his passwords?
P8: no, privacy is privacy.its like everyone's own personal pandora's box
P9: reasonable is in the eye of the beholder, but for me i would not entertain such a request.
p10: if a girl asked me for mine. only way i will give . if she gives me hers, cause that's fair trade
p11: not really what for? give him sum privacy
p:12: no, and its not alright for her to go through his phone and check up on him by calling his friends. relationship all about trust
p13: if there's a reason to, like needing to check something for them. but otherwise, to have his passwords just for the sake of it seems a lil overbearing
Results: As we can see from the results 84.61% of subjects believe it is wrong to demand a password from a spouse. Whilst the rest believed it depended on the situation, or did not answer the question correctly (lol).
Conclusion: As the sample size is relatively small, further research must be undertaken. However from this sample we can observe with a 90% confidence interval that asking for passwords is not reasonable thus confirming the hypothesis.
Participants: Subjects are of various genders, sexual orientations, races and ages
Methodology: Random sample of subjects were asked one of two set questions delivered neutrally with little [as possible] researcher bias. This was done by using two different reseachers to deliver the survey
Q. is it reasonable for a guy to ask his gf for her passwords?
P1 :he is just saying he doesn't trust you
its kind of immature of him
p2: FK NO, lol well if a girl asks me for all, hell no. sum are ok.
p3: no, he may be your partner but u still have your own privacy.he should put it in the past and leave it at that, not try to check up on u as it is now..and he is also checkin up on u cos he cares for u
but yet i wouldn't like the thought of a guy checking up on me...
p4: no, i think that's going to far when it comes to privacy. There has to be some sort of privacy
when a guy asks that hes just being insecure and paranoid...and from my experience..... shit goes downhill from there
p5: no, she is allowed to have her own privacy and life on the side. he is just insecure if he asks that.
p6: not really. he doesn't need to get into them, there yours.
might be different if u both trade passwords or something but it seems like a weird request to me
p7: no, never. unless it is absolutely necessary or something that isnt important. everyone deserves their own personal space. there are things that people are not able to share,emails especially,who u speak to, how you speak to, is of no concern to them. there is absolutely no need for them to know what your emails consist of
Q : is it reasonable for a girl to ask her bf for his passwords?
P8: no, privacy is privacy.its like everyone's own personal pandora's box
P9: reasonable is in the eye of the beholder, but for me i would not entertain such a request.
p10: if a girl asked me for mine. only way i will give . if she gives me hers, cause that's fair trade
p11: not really what for? give him sum privacy
p:12: no, and its not alright for her to go through his phone and check up on him by calling his friends. relationship all about trust
p13: if there's a reason to, like needing to check something for them. but otherwise, to have his passwords just for the sake of it seems a lil overbearing
Results: As we can see from the results 84.61% of subjects believe it is wrong to demand a password from a spouse. Whilst the rest believed it depended on the situation, or did not answer the question correctly (lol).
Conclusion: As the sample size is relatively small, further research must be undertaken. However from this sample we can observe with a 90% confidence interval that asking for passwords is not reasonable thus confirming the hypothesis.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Kitty and Buddha !
So I haven't blogged for a few weeks now, even though i told myself i would but sometimes sitting down and writing down everything i do seems like a waste of time because i could be out doing other things. Then i realise that regardless of whether i blog or not i spend almost all my free time sleeping ZZzzZZzz.... or chatting. So might as well blog, gives me an avenue to complain and vent and also gives me something to look back on when i'm older.
But the main reason why i haven't blogged on this site is that im writing Bio's of all my friends on another blogspot:
Welcome to FUNKY BUDDHA
Me + Frances
The only bad thing about my job is that I cant go anywhere else on Saturday night except for the club.It was Ryans Surprise party the other night and i could only stay for less then an hour before I had to head off for work ... =,(
I never get to catch up with those guys anymore! MISS YOU GUYS SO MUCH ! The Karaoke it was held at was so nice though!
There was LED lights lighting up the bottom of each table and they used a projector for the Karaoke system plus a LCD at the black of the room which is extra handy when there are too many people all over the place and you cant see the front of the room hehhe ... OMG i so want to take my girls there !
Me + Aaron + Marie
Stupid Computer won't detect my memory stick ! So i can't upload my pictures of the night!
The always Beautiful Miss Josie !
Vi + Me
Hawt right ?
Thao gawking at the girls confidence!
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The agenda for this weekend is Dinner with Old uni friends and then Saturday work once again [fingers crossed the girls come this week =)~ ] Lets just hope i make it though this week! Its assessments galore !
-- Kitty xx
P.S I think this is the cutest pic of Dai ! I just have to share ! I can't get over how cute he looks in it !
But the main reason why i haven't blogged on this site is that im writing Bio's of all my friends on another blogspot:
Tokyokittyandco.blogspot.com
I am in the process of writing the bio's [from my point of view of course] of my closest friends, oh, and my brother. Of course I have many many more great friends I want to write about, but i don't think its possible for me to write about all of them even if i wanted to. So far there are 16 people on my list of people i MUST write about and considering the amount of uni work i have to get through and all my other commitments, I don't expect to finish anytime in the next month or so.
I wish i would blog more often then I don't have to write big chunks of stuff each time! So much goes on such a short time ! For one I'm working Every Saturday at FUNKY BUDDHA now which is both fun and exhausting. Believe me or not i work very very hard every week and i go home exhausted every night and sleep till Sunday afternoon. But i have a great team to work with which makes it better each week. Being the Host is alot harder then people think! but trying to make sure people are having fun makes me happy too so its win win for me. How many workplaces lets me drink and dance? I should consider myself lucky ! cause the crowd are nice too, very mixed which is a nice changed from the Asian scene because it means less Fights!
I wish i would blog more often then I don't have to write big chunks of stuff each time! So much goes on such a short time ! For one I'm working Every Saturday at FUNKY BUDDHA now which is both fun and exhausting. Believe me or not i work very very hard every week and i go home exhausted every night and sleep till Sunday afternoon. But i have a great team to work with which makes it better each week. Being the Host is alot harder then people think! but trying to make sure people are having fun makes me happy too so its win win for me. How many workplaces lets me drink and dance? I should consider myself lucky ! cause the crowd are nice too, very mixed which is a nice changed from the Asian scene because it means less Fights!
Welcome to FUNKY BUDDHA
Me + Frances
The only bad thing about my job is that I cant go anywhere else on Saturday night except for the club.It was Ryans Surprise party the other night and i could only stay for less then an hour before I had to head off for work ... =,(
I never get to catch up with those guys anymore! MISS YOU GUYS SO MUCH ! The Karaoke it was held at was so nice though!
There was LED lights lighting up the bottom of each table and they used a projector for the Karaoke system plus a LCD at the black of the room which is extra handy when there are too many people all over the place and you cant see the front of the room hehhe ... OMG i so want to take my girls there !
Me + Sharlene
Me + Aaron + Marie
Stupid Computer won't detect my memory stick ! So i can't upload my pictures of the night!
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It was Ivy + Ni's Birthday Party last week. I couldn't resist dressing up! the theme was VICTORIA'S SECRET so you can image what the girls were dressed like. All you guys out there who weren't fortunate enough to be there, jealous much ? heheSexy much ?
The always Beautiful Miss Josie !
Vi + Me
Hawt right ?
Thao gawking at the girls confidence!
* * *-- Kitty xx
P.S I think this is the cutest pic of Dai ! I just have to share ! I can't get over how cute he looks in it !
Ahhaha So lost awwww !
Thursday, September 4, 2008
This life
"A Freudian slip, or parapraxis, is an error in speech, memory, or physical action that is believed to be caused by the unconscious mind."
An example of this could be calling your wife by another name? I think the sub conscious and the unconscious have a large baring on your behavior.
Which is why i think Freudian slips are more then issues with grammar production which is what most cognitive psychologists try and sell. Freudian theory puts emphases on the repressed sexual desires that manifest as physical behaviors.
The experiments that have been carried out on the subject all point to the very likely possibility that Freudian slips to exist. An experiment in 1992 by Jacoby tested the incorrect response rate to people who were caused anxiety of a shock and sex compared to a control group that showed that both showed twice as many "slips" as the norm.
So Freud in 1901 with no proof at all could have been onto something. The idea that all boys want to kill their father to get with their mother might not have caught on as well, but definitely i think Freudian slips are something to look out for.
So girls next time your boy calls you another name, keep your eye out on him. And boys, when your girl is accusing you of it, say it's your sister's name !
An example of this could be calling your wife by another name? I think the sub conscious and the unconscious have a large baring on your behavior.
Which is why i think Freudian slips are more then issues with grammar production which is what most cognitive psychologists try and sell. Freudian theory puts emphases on the repressed sexual desires that manifest as physical behaviors.
The experiments that have been carried out on the subject all point to the very likely possibility that Freudian slips to exist. An experiment in 1992 by Jacoby tested the incorrect response rate to people who were caused anxiety of a shock and sex compared to a control group that showed that both showed twice as many "slips" as the norm.
So Freud in 1901 with no proof at all could have been onto something. The idea that all boys want to kill their father to get with their mother might not have caught on as well, but definitely i think Freudian slips are something to look out for.
So girls next time your boy calls you another name, keep your eye out on him. And boys, when your girl is accusing you of it, say it's your sister's name !
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So last month I had quite a busy month, lots of work to do, assignments to finish and places to go. I didn't manage to upload many pictures onto my blog.
Which is sad, cause i know when I'm looking back in a year, I'll think "gee my august 08 must have been dull"
I keep this blog here because i want to be able to look back and see what i was doing, thinking and feeling later on in life.
I look back at my livejournal blog once in awhile and it still trips me out the way i saw things back then, how i wrote and my general inferences about life.
Not to mention all the pictures that i dont even remeber that remind me of the good times i had in high school.
Makes me quite nostagic *tear tear*
So im going to do everything i can to continue to write everything down, no matter how trivial and boring ! because i know one day im going to look back and think gee .. my life was so interesting back then *ahem*
But for now, a picture is worth a thousand words ..
My August in pictures !
Japanese Cusine with the girls:
Mmm... alkimahole !
Me + Lansi
Oooh.. Sashimii
V + Shells
Shes so cute!
Orchestra at the Opera House:
My ticket
So beautiful inside the Auditorium !
Dinner After the Show =]
Van's 22nd Birthday :
who worked it better ?
I'm always intruding ! hhah
This is where i belong ! =] i HEART him
Showing off Fonseena's creation
Fireworks!
Making the Bday Boy's Drink - look at andrews face !! hahahah
So chio!
The journey has just begun !
More to come ..
-- Kitty xx
Which is sad, cause i know when I'm looking back in a year, I'll think "gee my august 08 must have been dull"
I keep this blog here because i want to be able to look back and see what i was doing, thinking and feeling later on in life.
I look back at my livejournal blog once in awhile and it still trips me out the way i saw things back then, how i wrote and my general inferences about life.
Not to mention all the pictures that i dont even remeber that remind me of the good times i had in high school.
Makes me quite nostagic *tear tear*
So im going to do everything i can to continue to write everything down, no matter how trivial and boring ! because i know one day im going to look back and think gee .. my life was so interesting back then *ahem*
But for now, a picture is worth a thousand words ..
My August in pictures !
Japanese Cusine with the girls:
Our Yummy Drinks
Mmm... alkimahole !
Me + Lansi
Oooh.. Sashimii
V + Shells
Shes so cute!
Orchestra at the Opera House:Such great architecture
My ticket
So beautiful inside the Auditorium !
Dinner After the Show =]
Van's 22nd Birthday :The Birthday Boy - very tropical !
who worked it better ?
I'm always intruding ! hhah
This is where i belong ! =] i HEART him
Showing off Fonseena's creation
Fireworks!
Making the Bday Boy's Drink - look at andrews face !! hahahah
So chio!
The journey has just begun !More to come ..
-- Kitty xx
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Infancy
People are no more then a summation of their experiences.
I am no different.
But my experiences have shown me that i am clearly lacking the experiences to be able to consider myself an adult.
My mind is still in its fragile infant stages whilst my physical shows me as a confidant young lady. I am the jack of all trades yet master at none.
I am the composition of the expectations of my familiars which makes me thoroughly transparent yet still shrouded in mystery.
There are many a word exchanged about me, yet none of these Chinese whispers amount to any sort of truth even though people tend to take it as face value.
To know what i have done does not turn me into the very lies i am trying to escape. To know that I am more then ordinary, that i can escape the stereotype and be the person i aspire to.
My physical might show a confidant young lady, but i am still a infant. and i need to be protected
I am no different.
But my experiences have shown me that i am clearly lacking the experiences to be able to consider myself an adult.
My mind is still in its fragile infant stages whilst my physical shows me as a confidant young lady. I am the jack of all trades yet master at none.
I am the composition of the expectations of my familiars which makes me thoroughly transparent yet still shrouded in mystery.
There are many a word exchanged about me, yet none of these Chinese whispers amount to any sort of truth even though people tend to take it as face value.
To know what i have done does not turn me into the very lies i am trying to escape. To know that I am more then ordinary, that i can escape the stereotype and be the person i aspire to.
My physical might show a confidant young lady, but i am still a infant. and i need to be protected
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Wedding fever
I'm not sure who told me this, but apparently this year, according to Chinese horoscopes, that people in long term relationships either break up during this year or will definitely get married.
The thought is scary right. So far I've seen this prediction to be true, so many couples are spitting up or seem to be very shaky despite the years and years of being perfectly happy. Even I had a big breakup this year, which even though was for the best, hurt like hell.
So you could see this year as a clean up year, a year where all people who aren't meant to be but are just holding onto each other anyways get a kick up the butt to split up. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing because as we all know when one door closes another one opens up. Something i can also relate to.
So why all the relationship talk you may ask? Well... This year has been by far the year that I've heard the most wedding talk, so you tend to start comparing and thinking of your own.
A couple of weeks ago I went to a wedding with Dai which co-incidentally was also one of Fonseena's cousins. Such a gangster wedding if you ask me, It was a sea of spiked hair and tattoos (i have x-ray vision) They had great entertainment thought, Brazilian dancer and drummers and a really cute singer with a totally hot dress. The venue was good but very crowded for the amount of people there which made walking around very difficult and the dance floor hard to access. oh and the bridesmaid dressed were realllyyy pretty !
Fonseena + I
They're next! heheh
hes so cute (and a poser)
I'm definitely getting dancers at my wedding. Since i love dancing so much i might perform myself heheh.. proberly not a good idea in my planned 20K wedding dress thought.. heheh..
I also want a really traditional church ceremony, which is a shame because i don't go to my local church anymore (even though i should ><) but i also want a traditional Chinese ceremony to celebrate my roots. Not to mention i think the dresses are uber pretty. Asher did that for his wedding - one church wedding and one traditional Cambodian wedding. It just added to the meaningfulness of the day. Agreeing to perform a long and tedious ceremony where people make you wear something that resembles a mix between genie pants and a massive diaper, have random relatives throw things at you and pretend to cut your hair is what you call love !!
The fairytale church wedding
The wedgie pants - makes peeing a bitch !
Outfit 3 ? 4 ?
Retarded Malaysian air hostess much ?
Weddings are so exhausting to organize, i don't know how people do it ! I'm considering having a quicky Vegas wedding, Save time and stress and we can go to a strip club after ! lol. But then it would rob me of the best dress up of my life - my wedding dress. No normal girl in her right mind could say she never dreamed of walking down the isle in a vintage couture wedding dress
My parents went to a wedding of a family friend's daughter and they came home with these...
These lasted a total of 15minutes when they got home =] aren't they pretty! I want to make some of my own! wonder where i can do that at ? I think they are such a cute present for the guests! personally i would give them something that would last longer though.. but then again im sure it lasted longer then 15minutes in most households because the bottles were quite full to begin with , i think i ate like 7 before i could stop myself and take the picture.
God all this wedding talk is making me feel so old !
-- kitty xx
The thought is scary right. So far I've seen this prediction to be true, so many couples are spitting up or seem to be very shaky despite the years and years of being perfectly happy. Even I had a big breakup this year, which even though was for the best, hurt like hell.
So you could see this year as a clean up year, a year where all people who aren't meant to be but are just holding onto each other anyways get a kick up the butt to split up. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing because as we all know when one door closes another one opens up. Something i can also relate to.
So why all the relationship talk you may ask? Well... This year has been by far the year that I've heard the most wedding talk, so you tend to start comparing and thinking of your own.
A couple of weeks ago I went to a wedding with Dai which co-incidentally was also one of Fonseena's cousins. Such a gangster wedding if you ask me, It was a sea of spiked hair and tattoos (i have x-ray vision) They had great entertainment thought, Brazilian dancer and drummers and a really cute singer with a totally hot dress. The venue was good but very crowded for the amount of people there which made walking around very difficult and the dance floor hard to access. oh and the bridesmaid dressed were realllyyy pretty !
The dancers !
Fonseena + I
They're next! heheh
hes so cute (and a poser)
I'm definitely getting dancers at my wedding. Since i love dancing so much i might perform myself heheh.. proberly not a good idea in my planned 20K wedding dress thought.. heheh..I also want a really traditional church ceremony, which is a shame because i don't go to my local church anymore (even though i should ><) but i also want a traditional Chinese ceremony to celebrate my roots. Not to mention i think the dresses are uber pretty. Asher did that for his wedding - one church wedding and one traditional Cambodian wedding. It just added to the meaningfulness of the day. Agreeing to perform a long and tedious ceremony where people make you wear something that resembles a mix between genie pants and a massive diaper, have random relatives throw things at you and pretend to cut your hair is what you call love !!
The happy couple - all blinged uP !
The fairytale church wedding
The wedgie pants - makes peeing a bitch !
Outfit 3 ? 4 ?
Retarded Malaysian air hostess much ?
Weddings are so exhausting to organize, i don't know how people do it ! I'm considering having a quicky Vegas wedding, Save time and stress and we can go to a strip club after ! lol. But then it would rob me of the best dress up of my life - my wedding dress. No normal girl in her right mind could say she never dreamed of walking down the isle in a vintage couture wedding dressI want to look like this on my wedding day !
My parents went to a wedding of a family friend's daughter and they came home with these...
These lasted a total of 15minutes when they got home =] aren't they pretty! I want to make some of my own! wonder where i can do that at ? I think they are such a cute present for the guests! personally i would give them something that would last longer though.. but then again im sure it lasted longer then 15minutes in most households because the bottles were quite full to begin with , i think i ate like 7 before i could stop myself and take the picture.God all this wedding talk is making me feel so old !
-- kitty xx
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