Monday, September 29, 2008

My mini mock experiment.

Our Hypothesis : It is unreasonable to ask for a spouses password.

Participants: Subjects are of various genders, sexual orientations, races and ages

Methodology: Random sample of subjects were asked one of two set questions delivered neutrally with little [as possible] researcher bias. This was done by using two different reseachers to deliver the survey

Q. is it reasonable for a guy to ask his gf for her passwords?

P1 :he is just saying he doesn't trust you
its kind of immature of him

p2: FK NO, lol well if a girl asks me for all, hell no. sum are ok.

p3: no, he may be your partner but u still have your own privacy.he should put it in the past and leave it at that, not try to check up on u as it is now..and he is also checkin up on u cos he cares for u
but yet i wouldn't like the thought of a guy checking up on me...

p4: no, i think that's going to far when it comes to privacy. There has to be some sort of privacy
when a guy asks that hes just being insecure and paranoid...and from my experience..... shit goes downhill from there

p5: no, she is allowed to have her own privacy and life on the side. he is just insecure if he asks that.

p6: not really. he doesn't need to get into them, there yours.
might be different if u both trade passwords or something but it seems like a weird request to me

p7: no, never. unless it is absolutely necessary or something that isnt important. everyone deserves their own personal space. there are things that people are not able to share,emails especially,who u speak to, how you speak to, is of no concern to them. there is absolutely no need for them to know what your emails consist of

Q : is it reasonable for a girl to ask her bf for his passwords?

P8: no, privacy is privacy.its like everyone's own personal pandora's box

P9: reasonable is in the eye of the beholder, but for me i would not entertain such a request.

p10: if a girl asked me for mine. only way i will give . if she gives me hers, cause that's fair trade

p11: not really what for? give him sum privacy

p:12: no, and its not alright for her to go through his phone and check up on him by calling his friends. relationship all about trust

p13: if there's a reason to, like needing to check something for them. but otherwise, to have his passwords just for the sake of it seems a lil overbearing

Results: As we can see from the results 84.61% of subjects believe it is wrong to demand a password from a spouse. Whilst the rest believed it depended on the situation, or did not answer the question correctly (lol).

Conclusion: As the sample size is relatively small, further research must be undertaken. However from this sample we can observe with a 90% confidence interval that asking for passwords is not reasonable thus confirming the hypothesis.


Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Kitty and Buddha !

So I haven't blogged for a few weeks now, even though i told myself i would but sometimes sitting down and writing down everything i do seems like a waste of time because i could be out doing other things. Then i realise that regardless of whether i blog or not i spend almost all my free time sleeping ZZzzZZzz.... or chatting. So might as well blog, gives me an avenue to complain and vent and also gives me something to look back on when i'm older.

But the main reason why i haven't blogged on this site is that im writing Bio's of all my friends on another blogspot:

Tokyokittyandco.blogspot.com

I am in the process of writing the bio's [from my point of view of course] of my closest friends, oh, and my brother. Of course I have many many more great friends I want to write about, but i don't think its possible for me to write about all of them even if i wanted to. So far there are 16 people on my list of people i MUST write about and considering the amount of uni work i have to get through and all my other commitments, I don't expect to finish anytime in the next month or so.

I wish i would blog more often then I don't have to write big chunks of stuff each time! So much goes on such a short time ! For one I'm working Every Saturday at FUNKY BUDDHA now which is both fun and exhausting. Believe me or not i work very very hard every week and i go home exhausted every night and sleep till Sunday afternoon. But i have a great team to work with which makes it better each week. Being the Host is alot harder then people think! but trying to make sure people are having fun makes me happy too so its win win for me. How many workplaces lets me drink and dance? I should consider myself lucky ! cause the crowd are nice too, very mixed which is a nice changed from the Asian scene because it means less Fights!


Welcome to FUNKY BUDDHAMe + Frances

The only bad thing about my job is that I cant go anywhere else on Saturday night except for the club.It was Ryans Surprise party the other night and i could only stay for less then an hour before I had to head off for work ... =,(

I never get to catch up with those guys anymore! MISS YOU GUYS SO MUCH ! The Karaoke it was held at was so nice though!

There was LED lights lighting up the bottom of each table and they used a projector for the Karaoke system plus a LCD at the black of the room which is extra handy when there are too many people all over the place and you cant see the front of the room hehhe ... OMG i so want to take my girls there !

Me + Sharlene
Me + Aaron + Marie

Stupid Computer won't detect my memory stick ! So i can't upload my pictures of the night!

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It was Ivy + Ni's Birthday Party last week. I couldn't resist dressing up! the theme was VICTORIA'S SECRET so you can image what the girls were dressed like. All you guys out there who weren't fortunate enough to be there, jealous much ? hehe

Sexy much ?
The always Beautiful Miss Josie !
Vi + Me
Hawt right ?
Thao gawking at the girls confidence!
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The agenda for this weekend is Dinner with Old uni friends and then Saturday work once again [fingers crossed the girls come this week =)~ ] Lets just hope i make it though this week! Its assessments galore !

-- Kitty xx


P.S I think this is the cutest pic of Dai ! I just have to share ! I can't get over how cute he looks in it !
Ahhaha So lost awwww !






Thursday, September 4, 2008

This life

"A Freudian slip, or parapraxis, is an error in speech, memory, or physical action that is believed to be caused by the unconscious mind."

An example of this could be calling your wife by another name? I think the sub conscious and the unconscious have a large baring on your behavior.

Which is why i think Freudian slips are more then issues with grammar production which is what most cognitive psychologists try and sell. Freudian theory puts emphases on the repressed sexual desires that manifest as physical behaviors.

The experiments that have been carried out on the subject all point to the very likely possibility that Freudian slips to exist. An experiment in 1992 by Jacoby tested the incorrect response rate to people who were caused anxiety of a shock and sex compared to a control group that showed that both showed twice as many "slips" as the norm.

So Freud in 1901 with no proof at all could have been onto something. The idea that all boys want to kill their father to get with their mother might not have caught on as well, but definitely i think Freudian slips are something to look out for.

So girls next time your boy calls you another name, keep your eye out on him. And boys, when your girl is accusing you of it, say it's your sister's name !


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So last month I had quite a busy month, lots of work to do, assignments to finish and places to go. I didn't manage to upload many pictures onto my blog.

Which is sad, cause i know when I'm looking back in a year, I'll think "gee my august 08 must have been dull"

I keep this blog here because i want to be able to look back and see what i was doing, thinking and feeling later on in life.

I look back at my livejournal blog once in awhile and it still trips me out the way i saw things back then, how i wrote and my general inferences about life.

Not to mention all the pictures that i dont even remeber that remind me of the good times i had in high school.

Makes me quite nostagic *tear tear*

So im going to do everything i can to continue to write everything down, no matter how trivial and boring ! because i know one day im going to look back and think gee .. my life was so interesting back then *ahem*

But for now, a picture is worth a thousand words ..

My August in pictures !

Japanese Cusine with the girls:
Our Yummy Drinks
Mmm... alkimahole !
Me + Lansi
Oooh.. Sashimii
V + Shells
Shes so cute!
Orchestra at the Opera House:
Such great architecture
My ticket
So beautiful inside the Auditorium !
Dinner After the Show =]
Van's 22nd Birthday :
The Birthday Boy - very tropical !
who worked it better ?
I'm always intruding ! hhah
This is where i belong ! =] i HEART him
Showing off Fonseena's creation
Fireworks!
Making the Bday Boy's Drink - look at andrews face !! hahahah
So chio!
The journey has just begun !

More to come ..

-- Kitty xx